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rainbow1
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30.01.2007, 17:01 |
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We all have a relationship with everything. Obviously the relationship we have with the people and objects in our immediate vicinity is more intimate than the rest of the world. For most of us the most common relationship is possession. In our minds we think we own and possess things like cars and houses and carpets and golf clubs etc. This thinking easily spreads into jobs and tasks and positions and perhaps even other people. "I want you", and "You are mine alone", is the essence of many romantic film scripts and song lyrics. What we forget is that this relationship is wrong. It is not possible to possess anything. Care for..yes. Use...yes. But possess...no. You can't take it with you when you go, so we say! And yet it's the idea of possession which lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Can you see it? Fear of loss, fear of not acquiring what we have already decided is ours in our minds. So what is a better relationship we can choose which takes all the fear away. Be a trustee. Everything comes to us in trust, for us to use and then to set it free. The consciousness of trustee sets us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see ourselves as trustees of everything that we receive, including our bodies, encourages our innate capacity to 'care for with dignity'. It is a much more relaxing way of relating to the things which we are privileged to receive in life. |
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allight
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30.01.2007, 18:00 |
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Very nice, rainbow. Our lasting legacy will be our relationships, not our material possesions. How did we treat the people God put us in contact with will be how we are utlimately remembered....and judged. |
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PokerGuru
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30.01.2007, 20:08 |
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Allight, you make me feel honored that you are with us at PC. That you are one of us.
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rainbow1
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30.01.2007, 21:33 |
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you're right sweety ... if we could remember that in relationships of all types we'd all be so much healthier |
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